Choosing Me — Radiant Cut Self-Love Ring

Some rings are given. This one is claimed. You buy it for yourself, you put it on yourself, and every time it catches the light you remember what you promised.

At its center sits a radiant-cut stone with sharp, icy brilliance on a clean band of 18k white gold plating. It comes with a message card that reads: "Choosing me. A promise to myself, from myself." Keep the card in the box, or tape it somewhere you'll see it on the days you need it.

Women wear it to mark a new chapter: after a breakup or a divorce, at the start of a year that has to be different, or simply the day they decide to put themselves back on the list. It's also the gift friends send each other through the hard seasons, when "I'm proud of you" needs to be something she can hold.

It arrives in a jewelry gift box with the full-design message card, ready for the moment, whether that moment is hers or yours.